Minkerman is done

[minkerman]

Well I just had my first coaching call with Joanne. She was absolutely AWESOME! She gave me a ton of homework, was very direct in what I was doing right, and what I was doing wrong.

I now have a game plan to get my life on track FOR ME, which will hopefully create some question in W's mind about her choices. I have a goal, with steps to show whether we are seeing progress.

The premise is simple:
Look very carefully at what has created positive interaction. Focus on that.
Look very carefully at what has definitely NOT been working. Stop these behaviours immediately, this second.

LRT is called for in this case. I must not initiate any contact whatsoever, unless it is an emergency or important. Don't "create" situations to contact her.

We agreed that W is probably in MLC. The plan to work on this needs to take that into account.

Game on!