Thanks everyone. I won't let on that I got that part of the conversation. The best thing about not knowing the language really well is I can play "dumb" \:\)

As for the testing. I guess he's not really planning it. A couple of weeks ago he said "even when we seperated you still have the same issues" I imagine that he's testing me to see if I can change a bit and maybe be able to let go more.

So he claims he doesn't want the D but doesn't see any other way out. That's both a good and bad sign to me. Its good because it shows there is some hope but bad because it seems he's giving up.

Have you ever thought maybe you'd like them to go to MC with you but you know they don't want to? How can I get him to go while thinking it was HIS idea. Is that too devious?

Jen

Last edited by JenInVen; 03/04/08 02:41 PM.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road