Keep in mind that sometimes the MLCer will threaten divorce or separation when they feel pressure. They're trying to detach from you and they have this really powerful urge to get away so they can deal with their issues. If they feel as though they can't get the space they need, they'll threaten to leave. And if they still feel pressure, they'll follow through.
Like MWD says, give 'em their space. If they're threatening, back way the heck off. Go read some of the posts on pathpartners.com. You'll see women patting each other on the back for having the "strength" to leave. That's what you're dealing with. They're just looking for a reason...
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Me: 51 W: 50 M 24 yrs EA: since Apr 06 S22, S26, S28 ILYBNILWY:Nov 07
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden
