I am not sure I had as many changes as you, but I changed a lot of things and I sorted things out, threw some of the changes away. Mainly the changes that I threw out were the ones I was making for someone else. I have a basic nature that has been with me since birth, I like that. But there is experimentation on this road. One of my big changes, I don't feel the need to justify myself when criticized. I take criticism as constructive. Of course, as a human, I am not perfect, but you get the idea.
Michele says change the destructive patterns and hold onto the positive patterns and changes.