Yeah, she's barkign anger at you becaue you are a no good SOB. Not really but you know that is her mindset right now. She again refuses to accept that this is all part of the consequences of HER actions. She wanted to have this new life and not the one she had with you and the kids as a family of 4. She wants her cake and eat it too and most of the time in life that just isn't possible, something has got to give.
You have every right to set these boundaries and make this seperation seem more like a real seperation if that is what you want to do. Lord knows she went and did what she wanted to do.
Don't throw her stuff away just sore it all somewhere, don't keep all the vehicles-she will want hers eventually. But now si the time to do that glorious lovingly distancing thing we hear so much about on here. Give her time and space to wrap her mind around her consequences and I bet she will calm down and be back in touch in a day or 2, maybe 3 or 4. Her flaunting her relationship with OM by kissing in front of kids is totally unaceptable in my opinion. You also have every right to voice that to her.
Keep your chin up, remember only you will know if you still want to stand for your marriage or if you are ready to really throw in the towel.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
