When things were really bad, he really was a completely different person. It was like he didn't care anything about me, I really felt like he hated me. He was mean. I can't even believe some of the things he said. He doesn't even REMEMBER some of the things he said. He was so cold, and he even acted that way towards his family. He truly became someone that I didn't know. I really do think he was in a crisis. I am not sure that he has worked through it all, but I definitely see the changes. I think in time he will be ok.
Wow, I could've written this myself! Except my H does remember every horrible thing he said. He cannot believe he said such things and is truly remorseful.
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I notice that when he has news or needs to tell someone something, I am the one he calls. He has told me that I am his best friend and that no one has ever accepted him the way I have....He is also my best friend.
Same here. H calls me frequently throughout the day now just to talk or share something with me, and he's told me that no one ever accepted him or stood by his side and supported him the way I did. The way I have and will continue to do, together or not. He is someone I care deeply for, someone I love, and no matter what, I want to see him accomplish his goals and succeed in life. He feels the same way, but rather, he says he wants to see us succeed together.
My best friend's back. I missed him.
Wishing you well, klm!
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
