Just checking in on you! H and I have had sex maybe 5 times since I found out about the A in November. We didn't have it for about 6 weeks and then had it a few weeks ago. I was glad in the moment, but the next day looking back it felt definitely like "sex", no "lovemaking" involved. Since then we had one episode last week of touching/playing which felt a lot nicer since we kissed on the mouth, which is more intimate to me than sex anyway. But I'll never beat you up over sex. It is something I think about a lot and wish was happening more.
The frequent phone calls the other day sound positive too. And I have been warned that after a day like that they often pull back, almost to see if you will revert back to pursuing. And you didn't, so good for you!!
