I'm sure there is some testing going on. You've been making changes and things aren't quite what he expected them to be. Continue to shake up his expectations. Give him the space, move forward a bit with your life. I think the six month lease is a good sign, too, because it's not permanent. Our apartment lease is up at the end of July. I figure I've got at least until then.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.