They had a photographer there so my D and I got a nice picture. Shoveling wasn't so bad, but we missed on our snowman. My D had a playdate instead.
My W and I have a common goal her/our finances. After she dropped the bomb she went wild with my credit cards. Someone of this board advised me to take the CC away and I did. Behind my back she totaled up a significant amount of debt. I did too but they were either for Christmas or major applicances. Now, my W is tired of hiding how much she owes.
I learned that she's been miserable. Hiding the mail giving collection agencys her cell number. All so I wouldn't know. I wonder how angry she felt towards me having to keep everything a secret.
In our MC session this was one thing we talked about. When I told her I didn't care about money she didn't believe me. Then I commented on how earlier in our M I was trying to build and save our money for the future. Then I slipped and said. Now that we don't have a future there's no reason to save.
