Honestly not up on your current stitch, but some things on the first page that really caught my eye. My H and I also had the problem of being too individual...although that was more my "problem", and him depending on me. When I didn't give him all he was looking for, he ended up looking for it somewhere else and finding an OW who is completely co-dependent on him for everything from money to compliments.
We should get together for wine sometimes! If NikB (she's pretty local too) has another wine & cheese party, I will make sure you get the invite.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2