LMG, I'm in the same boat as you in terms of employment. And I didn't mean to imply that your H was a slacker, I meant more that if he *really* *really* wants to move out and your finances are what they are, then he might have to give in order to do that and I think it would be more than reasonable to bring this up to him. Sorry if it was offensive.

SPM, that does come out as controlling and it's an issue my H has with me. I'm seeing it more and more.

PS, hope you're doing better right now.

Last edited by cw68; 03/04/08 04:53 AM.

Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.