H called tonight to say goodnight to the kids. Per the norm, he was asked, "Do you want to talk to Mom?" and more often than not, he doesn't. Tonight he did. We chatted for a bit, he confirmed that he's coming over for dinner tomorrow night and asked if he could pick anything up for it. I said beer or wine then said that I had to go, DBing by ending the conversation. Not to read too much into it, but I'm wondering if he'll bring wine vs. beer. Beer: casual. Wine: more interesting, there's usually more thought behind it.

All in all, a good day even tho. his email request peeved me. Had a great workout at the gym, lifted some weights and then hit the hot tub in my new bikini. \:\) Yep, got a bikini for the first time in eight years. Really makes me feel good, esp. since I'm turning 40 later this year AND H is in super good shape. If you can't beat 'em, join 'em!


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.