yeah, a lot of good came out of C for my H, it only works if one FOLLOWS what is said at C, otherwise it s a waste of time, H saw his own T, then our MC, and all the while kept going down the same crooked path on purpose, unwilling to change. You were open to C right? well, if she wasn't then it's on her.
Everytime H says "I just want to stop hurting you (while talking about D) I just think he is saying he doesn't want to keep trying because "it never works"-- well, it could work IF he were determined to make us work, but he isn't.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.