Your comment to Zebra is what drives me f***ing nuts. READ THE BOOK. It talks about exactly this situation!!! She is resisting you, so you push a little...she must understand how much you love her! She isn't responding. So you push a little harder. Eventually, as I said in one of my first posts, she will run for the hills and never look back. This is proven...you are not unique.
I have done exactly what you are doing, and trust me - it backfired. And my W and I are in a fairly good sitch right now.
READ THE !@#$ BOOK Marcum! Don't talk to your W again until you do.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!