I feel like I'm being tested too. I feel like my H wanted me to make new friends get out and get a life.. and I wanted us and our D2 to be my life.. and he was just burnt out. So now he has made the decision for me to get a life since the one I had counted on is no longer there.
By the way, it sounded really positive the talk you had with your H about him taking a couple of days to himself.. and I think that he doesn't want to a lease for longer than 6 months sounds like a positive too!