. I have difficulty accepting all the blame but if it means saving the M I'd do that too.
I've never done the quote thing before so I hope I did the above right FB!
I'm not very good at this DBing stuff but I continue to try..... when I saw what you wrote about blame I just wanted to say something.. I don't think that you should be accepting all of the blame. Listen to what your wife says and try to affirm what she is saying (eg. "I can understand why you would feel that way").. but in saying that you are not necessarily agreeing with her.. just that you understand her POV. You are NOT entirely to blame for the status of your marriage.. it is a joint responsibility to work on communication and try to keep your marriage on track.
