I really do feel like H and I are friends again. That was one of the goals made a long time ago. So I guess I can check off one goal accomplished. When I told H how much it hurt when he said EA was his BF he said it has always made him sick to his stomach when people said their spouse was their BF. I guess that was his way of telling me that we don't have to be best friends. I'm ok w/ that part, but I am still not happy w/ the idea of her being a part of his life.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
previous threads
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1270987&page=5&fpart=1