I really do feel like H and I are friends again. That was one of the goals made a long time ago. So I guess I can check off one goal accomplished. When I told H how much it hurt when he said EA was his BF he said it has always made him sick to his stomach when people said their spouse was their BF. I guess that was his way of telling me that we don't have to be best friends. I'm ok w/ that part, but I am still not happy w/ the idea of her being a part of his life.