...h has texted back and forth all day and we had decided not to go out Sat night, mostly I decided after H's less than enthusiastic text of I guess he still wanted to go. I though forget it then.
I'm curious - what was your response, or your text if there was one, to his less than enthusiastic reply? Did you actually text H and say "forget it then"?
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So H mentioned a few times(again in texts) during the day what was I doing that night, kept telling him I had no plans. So he tells me I think I am going out.
Hmmm...Next time, if date night with H doesn't pan out, why not have a backup plan?
Check out what local events may be taking place soon, a how-to class you might like to attend, or a movie you want to see. Have something planned as backup. This way, you are showing him that you are GAL. You'll be showing him that you are independent and don't totally rely on him for a night out. You'd like to hang out with him, but you don't NEED it.
If H asks again, next time, what your plans are, have them ready, and answer with something such as, "Oh I'm not sure yet, but I'm definitely not going to be home. I want to check out a few things."
Independence, confidence, and a little mystery are all very sexy.
Congrats on winning the spa package! That's so cool, and it totally reminds me that I have a couple of spa gift certificates myself! I'd better cash in on them!
BTW, thanks. I also hope that my H gets with the program soon!
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
