sorry to hear about your D. Why do you think she has taken no action. I have the same exact issue. I got the initial letter and that was it, three months ago. Just threats from then on in. i also sometimes think it would be the best thing but do not want this to happen mostly because of the kids. I also still love her very much, it is a wonder why the way she treats me. Everything is nasty, bitchy junk. Never anything nice. She is miserable and in a lot of pain. I wonder if things will ever get better. Thanks for your thoughts.