On the one hand, Julie: kind, generous, successful, centered, strong woman. On the other hand, XH: mean-spirited, lacking in confidence, follower, cheat, coward.

Who is the winner here? They will be seen for what they are. People who are like them will giggle and snicker, but the rest of you--most of you--will roll your eyes and wonder if XH and OW are ever going to mature past high school.

You're awesome, and that's all that matters. You can't control what anyone else does, says, or thinks; all you can control is you. You just keep on blazing your bright, happy trail!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!