Just_Me, I need to refocus and set some direction. I'm feeling very down and lost.
Originally Posted By: Just_Me
It's just my experience, but the WAS actually doesn't beat around the bush if they are considering reconciling. Maybe you should detach a bit, avoid negative interactions (since those are usually pretty easy to spot), focus on what you are doing, and wait to be hit on the side of the head when/if she's making a giant leap.
OK I haven't contacted her in a week now; nor has she attempted contact. I don't like the darkness; tried it earlier. Where to from here? How do I find "Sven the red" ? Do you have any good examples of successes where there was more "conflict" than "OM" ? I'm thinking that the OM/OW thing is easier to handle than the conflict. Thx.