HUGS to you, LO. It will be tough, but I agree that it may be the best thing to happen to have him move out. He needs to hit bottom, to see that the grass is not greener on the other side. From what I can see, your H wavers so much, he needs to really get out there, live with OW, to see for himself how it is like, then to be CERTAIN that he wants to be with YOU!!! This will be very difficult to deal with for you, no doubt about that. Having said that, I know you are strong and you will pull through this. I agree with Karen43, he will regret, and then he will want to come back. Then it is up to you to decide. I am guessing at least one of the question is to make sure he does not waver anymore. I always feel like one thing that did not happen is that my H came back too soon to truly realize that he needed to cut off all contact with OW. He came back too soon but did not truly cut off contact, so now we have a "thorn" here which I am still dealing with.
Take care, and continue to GAL. You are doing great with GAL. keep it up!!! HUGS
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
