Well, I had bought GF a card last week and just felt like the time might be right so I mailed it this morning. Nik advised mailing after my birthday but I didn't want to wait that long (end of month). It was supposedly "generic", "thinking of you", wished her "peace for her soul, joy for her spirit and love for her heart." Hope that's not too obvious. I just signed it - K. We'll see what happens.