I have the book "Fighting For Your Marriage". Haven't looked at it yet, will crack it open soon to see what you mean.
No, she hasn't said why she wants to be alone. She actually told me on Saturday "I don't know why I'm hesitating, I just feel that my part of this journey was stopped when we decided to reconcile". She says she needs to know this in order to move forward. I said "you may never know and may just need to take a leap of faith". Hmmmm.
The weird thing is that she has really "backed off" herself. I hope to gain some insight on why that might be, from my coaching call tomorrow. One-word emails. Non-committal phone convos. Back to answering only 50% of my emails.
It's like she is super-acutely aware of not leading me on. But she has already told me she wants to reconcile. Maybe she is rethinking it. Who knows?
But she told me last night that she really has enjoyed the intimate time we have spent together the past few weeks. The feelings were there, and she is convinced my changes are real, and that both of us have "woken up". So, rethinking reconciliation wouldn't seem to makes sense.
