Well, seems the W has found another OM...this is sad, really it is. I have a FF that I converse with quite a bit (she lives in VA) who kind of went through the same as W. She seems to think there are parallels there. She thinks W has the ILYBNILWY mentality...but beacuse she is so distraught with quilt and pain, she can't seem to admit she still cares for me.
Thats interesting. She also told me, if I was to have a new R, she would flip inside...part of me wants that..lol..kidding, I think. But I have done better thanks RMG. When I have gone over to pick up kids and such, I make brief interactions with her, and say virtually nothing to her when she talks about having a date, or this kind of stuff. I validate and say goodbye.
I feel good today. I know I can do this..lol
God Bless Chevelle
Chevelle,
It is really sad.... They are so broken and they believe the way to be "fixed" is another person...... They need God and a good Christian counselor.... Honestly, all of this breaks my heart.... The thing that is really hard to swallow is most of these people will "realize" they have made a mistake...... Like I believe my exW has... After it is too late.... Of course, BEFORE they make the huge mistake, they are told by numerous people it is a mistake.... Yet, they press on with the stupidity...
If I were you, I would focus on GAL (Still!).... You really NEED to get out and meet some ladies.... Take a Yoga class.. Take an aerobics class... I know you will meet some ladies there.... Once you feel like you can REALLY walk away your W will feel it..... Hopefully, that will bring her back to you.... What you do is up to you...
Take Care,
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
