Hey Grace, I just wanted to drop by as you have been so kind to post to me. I am sorry your h is acting as he is. Isnt is amazing who they become?
When my h and I were going to tell my son, we rehearsed what we were going to say after I cleared it with my therapist. I wanted to do what was best for him. So, of course, we would not tell him about OW and we were going to say, this was something we both agreed on. Then my h starts to talk and says, I am angry at things your mother does and doesnt do. What?????? I could have hurt him. It is hard taking the high road. But I promised myself, I would have my dignity. And I see your have yours. You are fighting the good fight, Grace. And in the end, it will matter.
