Update...

Well, seems the W has found another OM...this is sad, really it is. I have a FF that I converse with quite a bit (she lives in VA) who kind of went through the same as W. She seems to think there are parallels there. She thinks W has the ILYBNILWY mentality...but beacuse she is so distraught with quilt and pain, she can't seem to admit she still cares for me.

Thats interesting. She also told me, if I was to have a new R, she would flip inside...part of me wants that..lol..kidding, I think. But I have done better thanks RMG. When I have gone over to pick up kids and such, I make brief interactions with her, and say virtually nothing to her when she talks about having a date, or this kind of stuff. I validate and say goodbye.

I feel good today. I know I can do this..lol

God Bless Chevelle