If you love them, set them free...

[mymonkeybug]

I agree with the getting the house key and seperating accounts at this point.

I personally feel her accepting such a lavish and high $$$$ gift by taking that SUV is so unwise on her part. That I don't feel will look very good to a judge and is something in your favor I would think.

I fully understand your desire to continue to try and doing so for your family is a very good reason. You and only you will know when YOUR time is up with trying. Do not let anyone else, not even your brother who has your best interests he feels in mind, disuade you from your stand for marriage reconcilliation if that is what you want.