GF, I am glad you decided to give your H a chance...maybe a continuance was better than calling the D off. That shows him that things HAVE to change. I haven't read your sitch, but I will try to do that.
I think a lot of LBS feel the way you do. We go through so much hurt and do so much to work on ourselves while the WAS does nothing to work on themselves. They still have the same problems and the same complaints (at least my H did). This was hard for me to deal with...but I have to give him time to catch up with me. Hopefully your H will take the next 8 weeks and work on himself and your M.
