Got taxes done jointly for the last time and H was angry, ranting at me on Saturday. Tax preparer figured out what our split should be based on how much tax each paid via salary. I paid 60% of the owed taxes so I get 60% of the refund amount. He wasn't happy and upset me. At least I knew it was fair as the tax guy did it and he is neutral, just based it on figures so H couldn't question it.

Sunday I felt better, he came over and hung my shower curtain and did a few other minor things around the house. From what I hear from my group that is a rare thing so I should appreciate what I get done - and believe me I DO! I gave him a bowl of taco soup I made and Sunday he helped himself to some more while he was working, I said I guess you liked it!


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08