Helloooo...Smoother Ride....Where Are You?? - Pt.2

[SueS]

Hi everyone. Thank you so much for coming by. Sheila, I almost called you after I got the call from OW's H. Just to actually talk to someone.

I guess I didn't word all of my post correctly. OW & her H are both talking about moving back to CA with the kids. OW told her H that if they move back to CA, she will not move in with him and that she and my H had talked about a move to Orange County. So, OW's H would also be making the move. His hope at first was that this would take her away from my H and they could try again. She's insistent that it's over between her and her H. No matter if my H moves out there, OW's H WILL NOT be away from his family. He said that the talk about moving to CA is getting pretty serious. He also said that OW mentioned June as a significant time frame. I told him that our lease is up in either June or July. I believe that OW & H are planning to live here together in MN until plans work out for CA. Or that's what's being talked about now.

Although with me being sick the call from OW's H didn't come at the best time, I told him I appreciated the call. I needed to know. He asked me if I'd seen any signs that my H is moving toward leaving. I told him yes/no. He's done a few things here and there, but nothing major. Although I did tell him that H has been receiving email links for apartments from someone. He has not been searching for them. At least not at home. OW's H is afraid that OW will get angry with him and take him for anything/everything she can and use the kids as an excuse. He mentioned that he has talked to their oldest about a few things and plans to gently (as he put it) discuss more with her. She's 13. I understand his reasons. She will have the hardest time with this, especially if she were to be blindsided.

Thanks- Sue