MichelleLT, you have hit the nail on the head. An A that starts out as "Just Friends" is the worst kind. My H and the OW started out that way and now the feelings are the hardest part for him to figure out. If it had just been a PA without any emotions, that would have been a no brainer. This way, its WAY more complicated than it needs to be.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option