Man, your sitch's sound so much like mine. We are all living the same nightmare. If I could only go back in time 1 year knowing what I know now.

Only diff is my wife loves to fight. Looks for fights, she learned this from her Mom and got her temper from her Dad. My W is on such a bad journey right now i wish i could help her. I looked out my bedroom window as she pulled out of the driveway after lunch and thought, on this bueatiful day, this bueatiful girl is no longer mine. She has been obducted by some strange alien. I really miss her and feel like she is moving further and further away every day. I hate that she is hanging around with the SSW. They are a group of very unhappy people and must just sit around and talk about how unhappy they are and what J**ks there husbands are/where. I hate that. If they used that energy to fix their marriages they would be a lot better off. i wish i could paint a better picture of the future for her but she is just not listening and I feel like it is going to be a long time before she does. It may be to late. Of course I have heard the "to little to late" line many times. I am not giving up yet but getting slightly tired in this marathon.

Your thoughts required. Thanks.