My husband is having an affair

[MichelleLT]

Try and stay focused on the positive changes and just keep DBing. I am glad you have not given up.

My H also did the same thing with his ring, once I knew about the A he stopped wearing it - claimed it was too tight because of the heat (which is actually plausible considering how hot it was) - but didn't actually come out and say we were getting D until he saw me not wearing mine once (which was and still is very rare - I AM married after all) and then he seemed to take it as confirmation/permission that we were over and quit making any pretenses of hiding anything about the A. Even changed his myspace status from married to in a relationship and put OW #1 on his friends list.

At any rate, I'm babbling. Just trying to say we all understand the pain and you are a wonderful person for trying to make your M work. GL.