LMG:

I'm sorry you are facing all this uncertainty in your life right now. I do agree with SPM...you should begin to look out for yourself and the kids. Maybe there are some inexpensive or free classes you could take. Is there a work force center in your town you could check out. We have one here that will help you (for free) write a resume, brush up on your computer skills, learn to dress for success, etc....some of the classes may not suit your needs but there may be one or two that could point you in the right direction.

I think that by taking the initiative to start working things out for yourself, may make H take notice!

BA


Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally