He knows he has to get a job. He's been looking for one. He's not a good-for-nothing at all, just got laid off.

And, no, SPM, of course I have no plan. It never occurred to me that my H would do this. I have no idea how to re-enter the job market. I'm trying to grasp the fact that my H wants to leave me at the moment, trying to believe I am still living on the same planet I once was.


Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08