He knows he has to get a job. He's been looking for one. He's not a good-for-nothing at all, just got laid off.
And, no, SPM, of course I have no plan. It never occurred to me that my H would do this. I have no idea how to re-enter the job market. I'm trying to grasp the fact that my H wants to leave me at the moment, trying to believe I am still living on the same planet I once was.
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08