I will be keeping a record now. Here's what I responded:
"This “works” for me, but part of me doesn’t like it. Three Weds in a row? I’m here for them, though you already know/expect that, so that’s not a problem for them or you. Sucks that your travel is now such an issue. I just hope they don’t see stuff like this as your job being more important than your nights with them."
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09