WAW's PA over, but still wants Divorce

[Hope4us]

I appreciate your support. I'll take a look at your thread and maybe we can help each other get through this.

One of my brothers and a good friend of mine D have both been god-sends through this. That's one thing I know is good that could come out of this. I've rediscovered what great family and friends I have. No matter what, they're with me through this all. D and her husband have been great friends of mine since Jr. High and D had an affair of her own about 10 years ago that WAW was her confidant through. D eventually woke up and ended it and their marriage is stronger now than it's ever been. WAW and D became very close when we got married and WAW will not talk to D about any of this because D "would never understand, this is different than her affair". Just another example of WAW distancing herself from her real friends.

WAW told another friend (whom we're close with both H and W) about "how fortunate she was to find her soulmate after we relocated". "He has nothing to do with our problems, but I just can't believe how lucky I was to find him when we moved". This friend told WAW that "what's she's doing is wrong, she doesn't know this guy, he's probably done it before, what kind of future do you see with someone who will cheat on his wife?", and more and that was the last time WAW talked to that friend.

I wonder myself if WAW's attitude change last week also may have had something to do with my beginning to have the attitude that I'm moving on with my life, with or without her, and she is recognizing that she doesn't like that she still has feelings for me so she's trying to be pissy with me again to see if I'll react and justify her rationalizations for the affair? Who knows?

Thanks again for the support. We'll get through this one way or another.