How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?

[Treese]

Sir;

Everyone i talk to says I need boundries but I want him to feel as though my house is a safe place....I have to say I do like having him there, I just wish it was for me...I didn't say anything about him getting something to eat or making himself at home..after all it is his home also....He has a key and I DON'T want to change the locks because i think that would make him feel as though I'm pressuring him and I don't want to do that...I'm trying to give him his space and let him know I'm there if he wants to talk. It's tough because I miss him terribly...I just want to run up and hug and kiss him but I know I can't....someday though.....

Visits aren't bad, just a little nervous in the beginning..then small talk...it was okay overall..but I do just want to smack him and say, "WAKE UP". LOL

I am being still...even though it's killing me sometimes....I think he's kind of shocked that I don't ask any questions....maybe that's why he comes by more....but still doesn't call...baby steps....

My door will always be open to him...as my friend said the other day.."Treese, I don't know if you'd ever be able to get over your H", you love him too much...and you are the most dedicated wife I have ever met"...only wish my H would see that...

Thanks everyone.

Treese