Thank you for checking in on me, LN. Everyone has been so helpful, I feel like we are all a team here, defending our marriages from "the enemy", whatever that may be in each case.
I have indeed backed off, as suggested. I will see how that goes. I know she is very busy at work the next 2 days, so she won't be focused on this, at least during the day.
Meanwhile, I will reflect on the positives, try to understand the negatives (or spin them into positives), and work on keeping a PMA!
