Olive, I'm so sorry! I know your H has been sounding confused too, which must be so hard! I will be joining you soon too, my H is set to move out the 15th! Theoden told me on my thread it will be a good thing (don't know about that) to get the space & then it will be time to do the Last Resort Technique, so will have to brush up on that. I do believe your H is going to be regretting his move at some point and realize it is a huge mistake, it is just a question of when that will be, and then you will have to decide what you want to do then :)!!! Karen