Just remember that the bombs will come, we have had many since we have decided to Bust our Divorce! But the difference is the willingness to work through our issues. In the past we would hold a grudge or just be plain angry. Now I see the two of us working as partners on all fronts. The best thing for us has been being able to have the safety of MC to speak our minds and the commitment from one another that we can not hold those thoughts against the other.
The goal now Fish, is to make sure that you are better together than before whatever that means for you. My opinion is that my marriage takes much more work now than in the past, but it is worth the effort and the results.
Stay in touch!
Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship
S7 S4
M: 7yrs Bomb: 10/19 Seperated: 10/24
The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce
