KerryK, I haven't read through the whole thread yet, but wonder why the teachers are involved with the SUV, who owns it, etc?
The after school teacher confided in me that W had told her that the SUV was indeed a gift from OM. My W has since told me so, but she does not know if it is in her name.
I had a look at this monster SUV in my driveway last night. It appears to be a real gas guzzler, but very nice on the inside. It even has cameras in the back for when you are backing up.