KerryK, I haven't read through the whole thread yet, but wonder why the teachers are involved with the SUV, who owns it, etc?
Also, I chuckled when you mentioned her sitting on the toilet like nothing. My H was at the house yesterday, I walked by the kids' bathroom and he was on the toilet. He said something to me, then I shut the door and started walking away. He called me back to continue talking! Had to tell him to finish and then find me to talk to me.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09