I think that after a few months or so of bliss, reality will hit for both of them. Apparently OW is a lot like my H in the spending area too. She spends without regard to what else needs to be paid & has even taken advances on credit cards to pay for things. OW told her H that my H said he will take care of her and he knows that he kids come with her. I don't see how my H can take care of himself, his own child, OW & her 4 kids when he can't keep up on his own bills & take enough time for his own D3. I'm angry and I want reality to hit him very hard.
SueS
The only thing I have to disagree with you about Sue is that I don't think they will have a few months of bliss, I would guess maybe a few days of bliss would be closer to the truth!!! I think they are both delusional. Is that something that all our spouses have in common or what???? Obviously, that situation is NOT going to work out it's a matter of when that sitch will fail, not if. I know at least in our state (maybe in yours too?) it is virtually impossible to leave the state with kids when you divorce, so their plans may not be possible anyway. Karen
