I think that I did push the talk a little too much, but I did learn from it and plan on getting even better at it. This was the first one where I didn't end up crying, sad and angered. Tears welled up in my eyes, but I was able to control it and move past it. I hope this is the beginning of us having talks that are controlled and let us move past this situation.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09