But after 15 months of separation and honestly 3 years of relationship challenges knowing what it seems the future holds is liberating. The burden of stress that limboland creates is gone. I have a calm sense of relief and an excitement for the future.
Thanks only to God, I'm there too. I expected constant crushing heartache but like you, being out of limbo has freed my spirit. We have fought and suffer so much these past months, we left no stone unturned, and that in itself is a victory. It took a bit but now I can walk without that heaviness in my heart, H and I still have to share kids so it's like we are heading in the same direction but taking different trains, if you will, I know he is there but he's on his own agenda and destiny, and I have grown to accept that. Took me pains yes, but now that the cat is out of the bag I'm free..
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
