Oh Sue.. I'm so you're sick on top of what OW's H shared with you. Take care of you and D3 right now. Especially financially. No matter what happens, you'll always have each other. You both will be heartbroken if you separate, but you know what? You'll heal in time.. both of you will.. and love will come into your life because you are loving, and worthy of being loved. You deserve much more than your H is giving either of you.
Your H and OW are not dealing with reality. Believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see. It's easy for them to SAY they're going to pack up and move to CA together, take the kids and live happily ever after. The doing is what's gonna break them. OW's H would agree to her moving their kids to CA? I hope he's documenting things on his end too.
Huggs.. I'm sorry you continue to be hurt by your H. He's definately a clueless individual
