I made a concious decision not to post this weekend...But also because I needed to step away from the constant analysis of H, of myself and of the sitch in general.
Interesting you posted this because I think at times if one is not careful, you run the risk of not GAL b/c you are just stuck in R thoughts. Got to find a balance. I've done exactly what you state above and it helps. It's hard not to hope, wish, think, analyze, find new plans, blah blah...but a break is necessary for your own health.
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tomorrow I meet with my lawyer! I'm trying to look it at from a positive point of view. That knowledge is power and right now I'm just gathering knowledge so I am in a position to make the best possible decisions for ME and for my children.
knowledge is most definitely power...I learned my WAW has no grounds for fault and also that my WAW cannot get a no-fault/irreconcilable differences in my state without me signing. In short, she cannot get one. Not that it changes her mindset but it is definitely good to know. And that's my point. It really helps to just know what you are up against such as child custody laws and such...Be positive and do as you state...oh and last thing...most D lawyers want your money and are not interested in the alternatives to a D. So, remember you want someone who has your best interests and desires in mind and not some money shark...
