Just started reading your sitch and I feel like I can learn a lot from it.
Just curious, though, how the PhD experience played out with you two. My WAW is in the midst of that and it has had everything to do with the problems we're having. OM is involved with her thesis project and she's totally wrapped up in ambition, excitement of research, but also insanely busy. Starting her PhD was the catalyst for her deciding she was unhappy in our M and her leaving.
Don't mean to hijack, but wondered what you thought.
